The cardinal principle of human relations is the fact
that where there is a right, there is a corresponding liability.
In Islam, there are three basic rights viz. rights of Allah,
rights of the people, and the rights of his self. In Arabic, it may be mentioned as
“Huqooq-ullah, Huqooq-ul-Ibad, and Huqooq-un-Nafs”. These are our liability to
Allah, to the people, and our selves. The liabilities to Allah and to our selves
may be forgiven by Allah if we repent before our death. But the liability to
the people will not be forgiven unless we solicit forgiveness from the people
whose rights we had trampled. The area of liability to people is very wide and
may be simulated to the waves in a pond of water when a stone is thrown in it and
waves start to expand from the point of impact of the stone with the water. The
size of waves increases from smaller to bigger as we move away from the point
of impact. The liability to our spouse, parents, and siblings may represent the
smaller waves and go on increasing with our relations with the family-near and
far, communities, neighbors, country-men, Muslim Ummah, other human beings,
animals and plants etc.
The Glorious Qur’an has emphasized strongly about our
liability to parents. (Please refer to my article Parent’s status in the
light of the Glorious Qur’an and the Sunnah of the Noble Messenger ‘s.a.w.a.s.’).
Rights of the spouse have been elaborately stated in the books of Fiqh. Our
behavior towards other relatives is known as “Silay Rahm”. In Islam, the
benefits of discharging our liability towards relatives are awarded in this
world and also in the hereafter. There are many Ayahs stressing about the
rights of the relatives e.g. Suarh al-Baqarah Ayah 215: “They ask you what
to spend for the cause of Allah. (Muhammad) tell them that whatever you spend,
give it to your parents, the relatives, the orphans, the destitute, and those
who may be in urgent need of money while on a journey. Whatever good you do,
Allah certainly is aware of it.” In this world, a person who
maintains good relations with his relatives, his sustenance is increased, a
longer life-span is granted and the death pangs are eased. The Noble
Messenger (s.a.w.a.s.) said: “The reward for charity is ten-times, the reward of
doing good to a believer is twenty-times, and the reward of doing good to a
relative is twenty four-times.” (Islamic Family Life by Sayyid Akhtar Rizvi)
The people have a right that all and every social evils,
like telling lies, back-biting, theft of their properties, making false
witnessing, insulting others, not keeping their vows and promises etc., may not
be committed by other Muslims. There is a famous tradition, the Noble Messenger
(s.a.w.a.s.) had said that Muslims are brothers in-faith to each other and that
the life, property and honor of every Muslim is a trust and should not be
trampled by other Muslim. He (s.a.w.a.s.) further said that every Muslim has
five rights over other Muslim: return his greetings (salaam), visit the sick,
accompany the funeral procession, accept invitation, and respond to sneeze (say
yarhamakullah) (Sahih Bokhari)
A true Muslim is the one who wishes the same for his brother
Muslim as he wishes for himself.
The Noble Messenger (s.a.w.a.s.) was a mercy to the world.
His life and directives about Muslims rights to one another is a complete
account of the other’s rights relating to his behavior with people. For example,
truthfulness, trustworthiness, kindness to the people, patience and respect
etc. Similarly, the greater and smaller sins revolve around the human rights.
There are many Ayahs of the Glorious Qur’an which
discourages Muslims from severing relations with the kin’s, e.g. Surah
Muhammad Ayah 22-23: “If you ignore the Commands of Allah would you then also
spread evil in the land and sever the ties of kinship? Allah has condemned
these people and made them deaf, dumb, and blind.”
The Commander of the Faithful, Imam Ali (a.s.): “I seek
protection of Allah from the sins which hasten death.” On inquiry from
Abdullah bin Kawwa, the Imam (a.s.) said: “It is severance of relationship.
Verily, the members of a family remain united and help each other, so Allah
gives them sustenance, though they be drinkers of liquor; and, verily, the
members of a family separate from each other and sever relationship, so Allah
deprives them their sustenance though they be pious.”
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