What
is self-control? It is the ability to sub-due our emotions and
behavior in the face of temptations and impulses in order to
achieve longer term goals.
What
is anger? It is an emotion that involves an uncomfortable and
emotional response to a perceived provocation, hurt or threat.
Normally,
it is difficult to control our anger and we spontaneously respond to
the situation and react in an unthoughtful way which results in
physical or emotional damage to the person causing the anger.
The
Quraysh had gathered more than ten thousand warriors to attack
Madinah and obliterate Islam once and for all. One of the companions
of the Noble Messenger (s.a.w.a.s.), Salman Farsi (later named as
Muhammadi), advised him to arrange to dig a trench around the city of
Madinah. The Messenger of Allah (s.a.w.a.s.) agreed and a trench was
dig out to ward off any attack from the infidels.
The
famous Egyptian writer Muhammad Husayn Haykal described the events as
follows:
Although
the campaign was organized by Abu Sufyan but the fighting man of his
army was Amr ibn Abd Wudd.
It
is reported by the historians that he was more than a match for one
thousand cavaliers.
The
attacking army laid a siege of Madinah and all exit routes were
closed. One day Amr and three other infidels succeeded in clearing
the trench and entered the premises of Madina. He advanced into the
Muslim camp and challenged the heroes of Islam to come out and fight
with him. There was no answer form the Muslim camp. The idolaters saw
in him their hope of victory, the Muslims saw in his challenge the
sentence of their death!
Surah
al-Ah'zab Ayah 10 describes their condition as , “Behold!They came
on you from above you and from below you, and behold, the eyes became
dim and the hearts gaped to the throats, and you imagined various
(vain) thoughts about Allah.”
Amr
ibn Abdu Wudd expressed amazement that the Muslims were not showing
any eagerness to enter Paradise where he was ready to send them! It
is true that most of the Muslims were terror stricken but there was
one among them who was not. He had, in fact , volunteered to accept
Amr's very first challenge but the Noble Messenger (s.a.w.a.s.) had
restrained him, hoping that someone else might like to face him
(Amr). But he could see that no one dared to measure swords with him.
The
Noble Messenger (s.a.w.a.s.) had no choice but to allow his cousin,
Ali, the Lion of Allah, to go and silence the taunts of Amr ibn Abdu
Wudd. He (s.a.w.a.s.) gave Ali his own battle dress and Zulfiqar and
prayed to Allah as, “O Allah! You have called to your service
Obaida bin Harris in Badr, and Hamza bin Abdul Muttalib in Uhad. Now
Ali alone is left with me. Be his protector, give him victory, and
bring him back safely to me.” When Ali was going towards his
adversary, he said, “He (Ali) is the embodiment of all Faith who
is going to an encounter with the embodiment of all
Unbelief.”The Battle is not being described here in detail but
only a part which relates to the Most Bravest Man in human history
and his enormous, unbelievable exhibition of his supreme
self-control!Amr struck a mighty blow with his ponderous sword
which cut through the shield, the helmet and the turban of Ali, and
made a deep gash in his forehead. Blood leap out from the wound in a
jet but Ali was not dismayed. He rallied, and then struck a
counter-blow with the famous Zulfiqar, and it cleft the most
formidable warrior of Arabia into two!”
However,
Charles Cameron, a former researcher at Boston University, describes
the duel with Amr ibn Abdu Wudd as, “Amr hammered blows on Ali's
shield and clashed with his sword . Ali dropped his sword and shield
to the ground; he leap to grab Amr's throat, and kicked him out of
balance. Amr crashed to the ground, with Ali now towering over him.
Amr spat over Ali's face, fully expecting death. Ali rose calmly from
Amr's chest and stood a few paces away and said, “I only kill in
the way of Allah and not for my private motive. Since you spat on my
face , my killing you now may be from a desire for personal
vengeance. So I spare your life. But Amr lunged at Ali who had enough
time to prepare for a fresh assault. Amr's devastating blow shattered
Ali's shield, inflicting a shallow cut on Ali's temple. As the second
blow blow rose Ali's Zulfiqar decapitated Amr.”
Sources:
Psychology today, WIKIPEDIA, Restatement of History of Islam and
Muslims by S. Ali Asghar Razvi
Fourteen
Stars by Allama Sayyid Najm-ul-Hasan Kararvi